You do not even think of your own past as quite real; you dress it up, you gild it or blacken it, censor it, tinker with it...fictionalize it, in a word, and put it away on a shelf - your book, your romanced autobiography. We are all in the flight from the real reality. That is the basic definition of Homo sapiens. John Fowles
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Feelings, thoughts and actions that we don’t like or do not want to remember in our past. We all do it and we try to make the past very small and forgettable in order to be in the present and future. We try to forget about our past mistakes and put them away in a box, which we call our book. It is very easy for us to do that because we are not happy with the way things went in the past.

We feel like we can never undo things, but it is there still, in our mind. The only thing we can do is try to turn it into something that will help us go further.

Source: The French Lieutenants Woman

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